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by: VinDiCarlo
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Is meeting women feels like a WORK to you?

And do you ever feel despite all your hard work you're not even closer to your goal?

If you agreed to those questions, then you may continue reading.

Honestly, going for a date can be quite frustrating.

You see a girl you like, but she has a boyfriend.

Everything is going smooth and fine between you and a woman and then just suddenly she's not returning or answering your calls.

Not to mention the fact that as the man you pretty much have to do everything to move things forward.

In your approach, you have to have the courage.

YOU have to keep the conversation going at first, YOU have to escalate physically, YOU have to get HER number or rack your brain to figure out a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to plan the date.

You know what, the standards for men's behavior are much higher than women.

(Let's not started on that...let's just say women are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are "beautiful.")

That can be debilitating, especially if you don't have an "extroverted" trait.

... I have encountered a client that has a problem of "extroversion fatigue."

I exactly knew what he meant about because I used to struggle with it before.

Looking back I used to teach myself about pick-up, I would go out, talking to three or four women and then find myself mentally DRAINED.

I would take a break and rest!

Think about how strange that is. In a situation where you are supposed to be having fun and RELAX, I was instead working harder than I was at my full time job.

I would go home absolutely dead

... from TALKING TO WOMEN!

Does it make sense to you???

There you see the general dating fatigue. There's an ups and downs in the emotions, results that is discouraging, in the hard work that I make just to get women to hang out with me or be in bed with me.

I feel I am working overtime just like a full time job!

When I first got in this game, I literally had to force myself to go out and pickup ALL DAY for days on end. (I admit, I was a nerd, and pushed it to the extreme.)

But what can I say, I was passionate about learning all this stuff (and not to mention extremely eager for results after years of sexual frustration).

I would push myself like professional athletes push themselves in the gym.

I was working muscles I had never used before, or to be more precise, I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS.

If you can relate to any of this, then you are probably working too hard in your interactions with women.

About the Author

Vin DiCarlo is a professional dating guru, who's highly controversial website DiCarlo DiClassified and see what he has taught about VH1's Mystery the Pick Up Artist show.

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