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by: MarcSandford
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When you've just broken up with your ex, your entire system is suffering a great deal of emotional stress. Nature has wired our brains so that intense stress causes us to act first then think afterwards. Unfortunately, this doesn't work so well when we want to win back our ex.

Unless you're an expert on dealing with break ups, your instincts are going to lead you in the wrong direction. Heated emotions will cause bad judgement which will result in lousy decisions. Simply being aware of the usual mistakes that people make and keeping a clear head will start you off on the right foot.

1.) Threatening your ex is a strategy that isn't going to be effective anytime soon. The majority of people respond by getting angry and resentful. Getting someone to want you is all about attraction while threats are coercive and repugnant.

2.) Don't do any begging or pleading with her. This will only diminish your worth to her because it places you in a very weak position. There's nothing attractive about seeming pathetic and desperate.

Don't forget that confidence, strength, and maturity are masculine qualities that women like. Pleading is frequently shown in the movies as a very romantic gesture. But in the real world, you will just get her contempt.

3.) Pouring a lot of attention on your ex right after a break up may seem the right thing to do when you're panic stricken. However that's because a panic state fills you with an extreme need to fix the problem right now at any cost. To her, you'll come across as desperate and even a little crazy.

So it's best to lay off all of the late night calls or the text messages. And to allow the situation as well as yourself, some time for cooling off.

4.) Avoid getting angered and bitter with your girlfriends family and friends. It's to be expected that they're going to side with her and do some talking about you. Staying on good terms with them helps make your attempts at getting her to come back much simpler.

Don't forget that half of the battle is avoiding all of the mistakes that will damage your odds at getting her back. You can do this by not permitting yourself to be overcome by anger, panic, or the other extreme emotions that will usually happen during a break up. Avoid any of the thoughts and situations that can arouse these destructive emotions and start working your plan to win your ex back.

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