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by: JeannieGiordano
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There are many kinds of secrets that can ruin a marriage.

I am going to talk about financial secrets in part one of this series.

According to author and radio host, Dave Ramsey , many people keep financial secrets and those secrets can be a sign of or cause problems within a marriage.

Although keeping smaller items a secret is not the same as having your spouse accumulate a $50,000 credit card debt, it still signifies a lack of communication and cooperation in a marriage.

If one spouse feels as if they don't have control of their financial life, they often spend money specifically to "rebel". Often this is how financial secrets begin.

Another type of common financial secret is when one spouse gives money to the kids without informing the other spouse. It's more likely to happen in blended families, "when a divorced parent wants to 'protect' his or her own child from the new 'evil stepmother' or stepfather, and part of the way he or she does that is by handing out money".

Discovering why you are keeping financial secrets from your spouse is the most critical issue in solving the problem. Discussing your secret with your spouse is important. Only honesty will help you clear you mind, and then the healing process can begin.

If you're not ready to reveal your secret to your partner, revealing it online anonymously is at least a start. You must be able to own up to it yourself in order to come to terms with the issue. The next big step is to admit your mistake to your partner. Ultimately, it will be up to you to decide whether or not to reveal your secret, but being able to admit it to yourself will be liberating and cause healing to begin. Dig deeply into yourself to find the answers and you will not be disappointed. Revealing oneself shines the light on the truth. This in turn leads to living a life of happiness and peace.

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YouReveal.com is a multimedia portal for revealing your secrets and confessions. Learn about money and infidelity in this unique and supportive environment, while expanding your personal horizons and awareness.

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