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You and your partner have split up. You've thought about the situation and concluded that a big mistake has been made. You and your ex are made for each other. You are going to get your ex back.

You are certain that the break up is a huge mistake. You have the telephone, text and email all available to you. So what could be more natural than to contact your ex and talk it over.

But the truth is if you do initiate contact at this early stage you will do more harm than good. It may be very difficult for you but you have to wait, you have to be patient.

Something Caused the Break Up

You and your ex have split up for a reason, or more likely for several reasons. The cause may not make sense to you but it is still important. If now, soon after the break up, you charge into making contact with your ex, demanding to be heard, you will make the situation even worse than it already is.

Difficult as it may be for you, now is the time to play the waiting game.

Only you can decide how long to wait before making contact with your ex. The circumstances of the break up can help you make the best decision.

If the break up happened over quite a long period, wait longer. If there was a lot of anger when you broke up, wait longer.

Carefully consider how long the cooling off period should be before you initiate contact. When you have decided on a period of time that you think is appropriate, think again, and then double it.

Use Your Time for Self Improvement

This waiting period is not lost time. Use this time to look at your own foibles and engage in some self-improvement.

Don't beat up on yourself but do look at the role you played in the break up. You need to understand your own faults and mistakes. When the time is right and you are talking to your ex about reunion you have to be able to say that you are aware of these problems and are really trying to make corrections.

To get your ex back you will need to practice self control and patience. You will need to able to look critically at yourself and be willing to make improvements. This may be difficult but if the two of you are meant to be together all your efforts will be well rewarded.

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Find out how to get your ex back. Tips and tricks to help you get your girlfriend back at http://www.get-your-lover-back.com/

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