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Most likely, if your ex-girlfriend dumped you, she is probably not going to be very excited about answering your calls or texts. If you dumped her, she might be a lot more receptive to your attempts at reconnecting. Either way, you have to be able to communicate with her effectively in order to get her back. Once you have established a line of communication, here are your next steps.
Nobody respects a liar, and your ex-girlfriend is no exception. If you lied throughout your whole relationship, this is your opportunity to come clean with her and admit your wrongs. Telling her the truth about everything, from the girl you were caught with at the coffee shop, to the real reason why you were out until seven in the morning, to any drug or alcohol problems that may be inhibiting you will give her more confidence in accepting you back because she will feel that the slate has been wiped clean.
If you were out with the girl because you were exploring other options, then say so. Don't continue the lie by saying it was your cousin from out of town. A secret that most women won't reveal is that they are suckers for the truth, even when it hurts. They will be mad at first, but soon get over it. This is only true to an extent. If you don't intend on changing the behavior then the novelty of your truthfulness will wear out quickly.
Don't pressure your ex-girlfriend to give you an answer on whether she will take you back right away. That is likely to chase her further away. Instead, you should state your case, and then explain to her that you understand if she needs some time to process your request to have her back.
If you pressure her into making a decision right away, or even go so far as to give her an ultimatum, you will most likely push her away rather than bring her closer. Don't be a stalker. Give her time to think about getting back together with you. It may be weeks, or it may be months. How long you are willing to wait depends on how much you really want her.
Your ex-girlfriend will be suspicious if you ask her to go out on a date at a bar. Why? Because bars equal drinking and the potential for getting drunk. If in the process of winning her back you seem to be trying to get her in a compromising position, she will think that you are just trying to take advantage of her. The same is true if you invite her over to your apartment for drinks. She may think you have an ulterior motive.
So if you're trying to get your ex-girlfriend back, you've got some growing up to do young man. Let common sense, patience, and truth be your guide. Make sure you treat your ex girlfriend with the love and respect that she deserves. Treat her like a queen and you will do just fine.
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