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If you've lost your girlfriend, you may be going through a tough time. It's never easy to lose someone that you really care about. However, instead of just sitting around feeling down, it's time that you start thinking about how you can get her back. If you've been wondering how to get your ex girlfriend back, you need to know that there are many things that you can do to woo her back to you.

Of course before you even start attempting to get your girlfriend back, there are some things that you are going to have to do. First of all, you're going to have to take control of your emotions. While the dissolving relationship may have left you feeling heartbroken, you can't appear depressed and sad if you want to go out there and get your girlfriend back. So, it's time to work on yourself a bit.

Take some time. Calm yourself. You need to bring your emotions under control. You need to build your confidence. Slow down and get yourself into a proper frame of mind. You need to be able to think clearly before you start down the road to reunion with your girlfriend.

It's important that you feel strong and confident. Weakness, neediness and desperation are all turn-offs and sure signs to your ex that she made the right decision in leaving. Don't try to bump into her on the street. Don't spy on her. Don't phone, text or email her. Doing these things will not help your situation. In fact, they will make it worse.

Be very careful what you say to others as well. Assume that anything you say will eventually get to the ear of your ex. It's best not to say anything, good or bad about your ex right now.

This is also a good time to pay special attention to your appearance. You want to look your best so that when your ex does see, and she will, she takes a second look and maybe starts to wonder if she made a mistake. Get a new hairstyle, buy some new clothes, hit the gym.

After two or three weeks have gone by find some pretext to phone her. You could ask he about a mutual friend you haven't seen for a while or even just tell her that you were just wondering how she is doing. With luck the conversation will lead to a point where you can ask her out for coffee or lunch or even just a walk in the park.

Before you embark on trying to get her back, make sure that you have a great plan. There's always a chance that something you try won't work, so have a backup plan as well. Remember, needy, desperate, and stalker-like are not going to work, so get your act together, bring back your confidence, and win back the woman that you love.

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