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Make sure you write down all the information you find that might incriminate your husband. Don't try to remember it all, as you will not be able to, you are under enough stress already without having to keep all that information in your mind.

You must keep track of all suspicious activities, including the dates and times. An example of this would be if your husband goes to the gym, yet when he gets back his towel is neither wet not smelly. You will be able to track patterns in his behaviour when you have all the information written down.

Always pay close attention to everything your husband says or does. You may have noticed a strange behavior one day but you're not really sure if he has done it before, if you write it all down you will be 100% confident that he has changed some crucial habit, or created a new one.

It is completely up to you how far you want to look into your husband's personal life. Some people believe there are certain boundaries that should not be crossed, but it is up to you to do whatever you feel comfortable with. Remember that if he is cheating the end will always justify the means.

One very important thing to keep an eye on is your phone bill, if you start noticing numbers that you do not recognize you should be very wary of what your partner is up to. All too often the simple mistake of calling their new girlfriend/boyfriend is what catches them out in the end.

When you finally track down that tangible, physical evidence, take note of exactly how and where you found it. Ensure that you don't leave any evidence of your investigation behind, make copies of all important paper work or emails and leave the originals as you found them. You do not want to arouse your husbands suspicions until you are ready to confront him. Keep all you evidence in a safe place preferably out of the house.

When you think you have accumulated all the evidence you need, and you're ready to confront your husband, make sure you have a plan! Write-down all the questions and accusations so that you won't lose track. Have all the evidence prepared as it is important that you have a watertight case, don't confront him until the evidence clearly points to his infidelity. You must prepare yourself for him to continue lying is will be a very emotional time for both of you.

Remember to always follow your intuition, it will lead you to the truth eventually.

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