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There are times in a person's life when they gain knowledge of something they wish they hadn't. Being the victim of a cheating boyfriend is one of those times.
It's 2008 and it seems that the idea of monogamy has disappeared from the earth and now we live in a state of infidelity and lies. Love is no longer cherished for what it is, it's no loner a commitment, it's a chore.
Fifty percent does seem high, and when I saw it I had the same reaction you're probably having right nowdisbelief. I then went on to research that there are only a small minority of people who actually do something about it.
Okay, you're doing research on this topic so you're already ahead of the game. This means you are among the small group of women who have the courage and dignity to do something about your situation. You've seen the signs of a cheating boyfriend and you decided to do something about it. This means that you are willing to take action and initiative, the power to take your life into your own hands and be happy for once.
As humans, many times we have the evidence right in front of us but we refuse to see it. Eventually, we let things go so long that it becomes part of normal life, a miserable one.
We often tend to worry about things for long periods of time waiting to take action. We often don't know what we're waiting for. We wait so long that each day that passes only increases the anxiety and the fear of the unknown.
TAKE CHARGE! This is the only life you get. You have the power (at least you did at one time). Take control again, regain your confidence and begin living your life again.
- "Hmmm...Honey, you know I am not one of those controlling girlfriends, but uuhh...where have you been!?! It 6 o'clock in the morning!" This is one of the more obvious signs of a cheating boyfriend, but one that is overlooked many...many times.
- Your once raging sex life has all but completely disappeared.
- Does he have a history of cheating? You thought he would change for you didn't you? 99% chance, he never will change and will always be a cheater.
- He can't look you in the eye? This is a major clue. Then when you ask him why he gets really angry. Guilt can be a funny thing. It takes control and makes the signs easy to read.
- You have short brown hair, but you keep finding long blond hair on your boyfriends shirt, car, pantsetc.
- Check receipts! Find any receipts for flowers or jewelry but never received the benefit of his credit card dept. Look for recent purchase on receipts or even on-line computer statements.
- Does he use the computer so much he could be a member of the IT support team at work. The age of the computer has brought a whole new game to the cheating world. It makes it easier than ever to cheatand even easier to pick up the signs of a cheating boyfriend and catch him.
- Ah yes, The ever so popular cell phone! Any new trends in his usage or lack thereof? How about texting, or vibrating ringer. How about not answering calls? Out of all the signs of a cheating boyfriend, this is one of the easiest to pick up on and get proof of infidelity.
- Are his friends working in collusion with these question provoking scenarios? Men suck at covering for one another. Can you spot the inconsistencies?
- Does your back hurt from carrying all the weight in your relationship. Chances are he's giving you a hint, a very direct hint. Most men do this because their cheating on you and want you to break up with them.
Remember, we still have to build a solid case before we make any attempt at questioning your suspected cheating boyfriend. This will only hurt our chances of gathering concrete evidence! As women, we often think we have plenty of evidence, yet since we cannot predict how our suspected boyfriend will answer, we must be prepared to answer his every excuse with a fact. Remember, he can't deny anything, once you have solid proof!
Now you have noticed the signs of a cheating boyfriend you can catch him by going to visiting the signs of a cheating boyfriend web site.