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by: BenjaminWise
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We all know what it is like when you break up with your girlfriend, at that moment you are at a loss. The next thing you begin to do is think how to get her back; this can become an issue if those actions become desperate.

The next thing you do is try and call her, then when she fails to pick up you begin to feel rejected. This rejection can then further lead to even more desperate actions.

This of course leads to a vicious circle of making one mistake after another. So your first vital step is to step back and do not try and call your ex the day you break up. Easy for everyone else to say, I know, but when your emotions are fired up you can do some silly things which leads to more pain.

Step number two is to talk things over with friends, especially mutual friends, as they may be able to give you some good advice. In the case of mutual friends they may be able to talk to your ex to see what is going on. In this step your gathering information and you're not hounding your ex, with this information you can discover what is at the root of the problem.

Step number three, because you have not called and are figuring out what is going on and what to do next, time is elapsing giving you greater ability to think straight and continue with your life as you figure this stuff out.

By taking these steps you are acting maturely and running around like a lost puppy. Due to the fact that you have not called your ex, she will get the impression that you are working things out, and of course with that she may fear that she will actually lose you, because often times relationships end as a test to see if you are really committed.

Often time's breakups become a test to see who is really committed, if one or the other gets the sense that they could actually lose their partner for good, then the behavior starts to change.

To conclude as your head clears and you start to get back to straight thinking you can then call your ex. When you do communicate, do not immediately talk about the relationship, first talk in general then put a time constraint on it and say you will call again or maybe meet for coffee or let her make that move but more importantly make it easy for them to make the move.

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