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Knowing proper wedding etiquette is a must for your perfect day to run smoothly. Everyone involved in the wedding, from the bride and groom to the groomsmen, bridesmaids and the guests, is subject to these certain rules of etiquette to ensure that tradition is upheld and that everything goes as expected. Not following the etiquette in a traditional ceremony could result in hurt feelings.

The groomsmen and bridesmaid are a large part of the celebration, but they are also supposed to give the bride and groom support when needed. Bridesmaids who try to make themselves the center of attention are certainly displaying poor behavior. Remember, this day should only be focused on the couple and their union in love, so the general focus should definitely be on them. Trying to pull the attention away from the bride and groom happens far too often and should certainly not be attempted by members of the bridal party.

During the ceremony, the guests must be aware of their actions and behavior. Certain things like getting up to use the restroom, whispering, or falling asleep can be a distraction for everyone around you. There is nothing worse than being distracted by a guest insisting on making everyone in their row move so they can get up and use the restroom. Cell phones should be turned off as well, to prevent any unexpected interruptions. This is all a matter of common courtesy. ?

If you are the mother and father of the bride or groom, you need to be especially mindful of your behavior during the ceremony. Keep in mind that the attention should be focused on the bride and groom, NOT on you. Every time you sniffle, cry or make any other noise you take away from the ceremony. The last thing you want the guests remembering at the ceremony is how the mother of the bride caused a scene by breaking down during the vows.

The bridal couple should also keep in mind certain wedding etiquette on the special day. Some tradition should be followed; not only will this keep the ceremony more organized, but it will also ensure that family traditions will be followed as well. Furthermore, the groom and bride should really try to make each guest feel welcomed and comfortable throughout the entire wedding ceremony and reception. Remember, a reception is very similar to a large dinner party, so every effort should be made to make sure guests are comfortable at the event.

Which brings me to the gift giving. Generally, the bride and groom have registered at a store for gifts that they feel would be beneficial to their new life and new home together. When shopping for gifts, guests should do their best to stick to the registry as best they can. Most couples understand that not everything they want will be in everyone's price range, and so will put a few smaller items on the list. If you are unable to find something on the gift registry, then a gift of cash is always acceptable. Just don't go overboard.

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