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by: ClaireTourney
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Perhaps you've heard the proverbial old saw about "Why A Hungry Dog Doesn't Get Fed". The logic behind this phrase is important for you to understand right now if you are serious about wanting to get your ex girlfriend, boyfriend, husband or wife back in your life and you have been acting a little needy or desperate.

Think about what you would do if a hungry dog showed up at your door? No matter how sympathetic you feel towards the dog you shoo it away because you know if you feed it you will be stuck with that dog hanging around looking for a free meal and becoming a nuisance. So you pick up the phone and call the Humane Society or the Pound instead.

But what happens instead if a handsome, well fed and groomed dog with a shiny collar happens to show up at your door? You probably admire that dog, but you know it doesn't need you to feed it; it's obviously well taken care of probably just lost or wandering around checking out the neighborhood.

So you feel a little relieved, perhaps even think that it might be nice to have a dog like that. Do you get the metaphor here? You don't want to come across to your ex as the "needy dog" - you want to be the handsome, well fed dog instead.

Exhibiting needy behaviors such as calling too much or begging and pleading with your ex to take you back only makes you seem like the "needy dog" to your ex lover and this will push them away even more.

As you can see this behavior does not make you the least bit attractive to your ex, but the other thing you need to realize is that people tend to want that they can't have and if you are showing up at their door all the time looking for an emotional handout you certainly aren't that handsome dog that they admired but that's just out of their reach.

You see the real secret is that people like people who like themselves, who are emotionally secure and confident and don't "need" someone else to be happy.

So if you are serious about wanting to win back your lost love, give them some space for awhile while you get your head on straight and cut loose the desperate, needy behaviors.

Then you'll be ready to start planning a SMARTER strategy to get back with your ex.

About the Author

Hi, I'm Claire Tourney and I've got some great info on how you can get back your confidence and self esteem, and get your ex back too. Discover a SMARTER strategy for getting back your lost lover by visiting my Squidoo lens Get Your Ex Back!

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