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We will begin with a question.

Do you have a favorite woman, yet despite all your romantic efforts, you remain just friends?

Well, there is a reason that happened!

Chances are it was because you did not know how to flirt properly with the woman.

Since flirting is a vital element in the process of attraction and you do not do it correctly, or even worse, not at all, you may be leaving your opportunity to be with the woman up to chance.

So why is flirting so important?

This is simple flirting creates sexual tension.

And if you don't have sexual tension in an interaction, there is no attraction. And if there's no attraction, what does that make you?

That is correct - you're a friend!

Your attraction enhances when you know how to flirt with women properly.

And the secret is - flirting isn't really as hard as many people think. In fact, it can be a lot of fun. The only time flirting doesn't work is when it's done WRONG.

The art of flirting with women is all about communicating your romantic interest in the woman rather than just letting the cat out of the bag.

These are mixed signals.

You communicate one thing yet your words say something very different.

Some of the more common mistakes of flirting with women that men make may include:

MISTAKE #1: They Are Too Obvious

Many men are caught up in the excitement of being attracted to a woman, and then they say exactly what they feel. They do not realize that this type of information presentation forces the woman to decide how she may feel about him.

And if you haven't laid the proper groundwork beforehand, chances are the girl is going to reject you.

MISTAKE #2: They Aren't Obvious Enough!

On the flip side of that coin are the guys who communicate NO INTEREST AT ALL, yet in their minds they think that the girl should know how they are feeling. Then, when they make their move, the girl is surprised because up to this point, she had no idea the guy was interested in her!

MISTAKE #3: They Rely On Words Instead Of Actions

A great deal of flirting has to do with what you say, but the more powerful techniques are NON-VERBAL body language stuff. Little things like an eyebrow raise, a head tilt, or a wicked smile can give new meaning to an otherwise benign remark.

MISTAKE #4: Taking Things Too Seriously

Flirting is a lighthearted and fun practice, it is when serious romantic gestures begin that causes the sexual tension to break down.

When you or the woman is not enjoying the flirting, something is wrong.

I could list more mistakes like these, but I think you get the idea. So what's the right way to start flirting?

Use as much innuendo as you can while you are flirting, however the secret is in keeping it subtle.

Let us say you are at a bar, for example and the woman you are with orders a drink and then asks if you would like one as well, you can jokingly say to her, You aren't trying to get me drunk and take advantage of me, are you, while adding a nod and a wink.

This lets her know you are interested without saying it outright. Flirting is implication and it is fun and lighthearted.

On the other hand, when a woman says something temptingly naughty to you, you might say to her, Stop trying to seduce me, you minx! You know I don't do that on the first date.

Do you understand how all this works?

As you begin flirting more and more, you begin to get a bit more obvious about your interests, although you never really step over that line.

You will notice how the attraction between you and the woman begins to build. Then one day you find that a harmless bit of flirting has turned into seduction.

The real fun begins at this point.

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