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by: SaraMusfeldt
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We are all frustrated by the same dating patterns we've all got. You ask yourself, why do I end up dating the same guy always? Every boyfriend reminds me of my dad, why? The guy with the really spiky hair is the only type that approaches me, how come?

You continue to date the same type of guy because you are the same type of person. You need to discover whatever it is about you that attracts jerks, and then change it if you don't want to date them.

Now don't get me wrong, sometimes people are just big, huge jerks. But we're talking about you; we're not talking about them. To stop your jerk-dating pattern, here are three steps you need to follow.

First Step: Ask a Friend

If more than once you've dated the same type of loser, go to your most honest friend and ask why they think that is. Really listen to what they tell you.

Second Step: Be Single

You need from here to decide to be single for awhile. Date yourself during this time when you are truly single. Learn what it is that makes you tick and get to know you. Really think about what you need to be happy and about what it is you're looking for. Write it down once you figure it out, keep it in your bag, and read it every day.

Third Step: Date the Antithesis

When you feel ready to date, do yourself a favor and date someone that is nothing like your ex. Seek out someone that is different so you can get a taste for what is out there. Even if you don't think they are your "type" you might be surprised to find that there are all kinds of people that you can connect with.

You won't date any more jerks with time and self-reflection. Admitting you have a problem is the first, like all challenges we face.

About the Author

About the Author: Sara Musfeldt's website DatingTales.net is filled with dating stories, and she also provides an online dating guide with lots of online dating tips.

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