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When disaster hits, a storm strikes, or anything that's just plain bad happens, there will always be warning signs. After the disaster, people will often say: "we should have heeded the warning signs". This is the case with political events, storms, bridge collapses, and of breakups between couples.

Be warned, if you're a paranoid individual, forget that you ever saw this article. Please note that the points discussed here refer to changes in your partners behavior that wasn't there in the past. Also, the more signs that are true for your relationship the more likely a breakup is about to happen.

1.) Any changes recently in her affection for you? Does she avert her head when you want to kiss? This kind of change is a very serious sign that your relationship is in trouble.

Constant fighting and bickering over trivial things means that you don't want to face up to the real reason for your discontent. Is fear of a separation the only thing that holds you together? Or is it a different matter that's got to be faced immediately?

2.) Have you been bumped down to the very end of her priority list? This means that anyone or anything in her life gets her attention first before you. For example, she can never find room in her calendar to squeeze you in.

This is a very demeaning and painful situation to be stuck in. She has practically eliminated you from her life. Even though you haven't officially separated, you're pretty much there already.

3.) Does it seem as though your very existence displeases her? Has her standards gone through the roof and she's always criticizing you about something? This means she's looking for excuses to leave and give you the blame for the breakup because you're not good enough.

4.) Does your girlfriend come across as distracted, distant, somewhere else? Perhaps she's apathetic and doesn't add much if at all to the conversation. This remote behavior is very common but when considered in addition to other signs of a breakup, it has significance.

5.) Is the affection and love that you give her not returned with equal enthusiasm. When you increase your contact with her, does she pull away from you? If this is your situation, a break up is in your future if nothing is done to fix the relationship.

6.) Has she lost enthusiasm for the favorite activities that you always did together? Perhaps she desires to do them alone or with a 'friend'. This signal is a warning of very deep problems.

Again, you must exercise some caution here. Use these tips if you already have a bad feeling about where your relationship is going. People have their quirks of behavior. Keep in mind that we're talking about a behavior change that isn't normal for her.

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