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A huge part of attracting and seducing a woman happens before the two of you even speak. I would say probably 90%! Women want certain things from a man, and it is your job to present it to them. Better than presenting certain characteristics is to actually be someone who has these characteristics!

Call to mind the first step of the four part progression: Put yourself in her line of sight and show the traits she wants to see (Alpha male traits). She has made up most of her mind about you before you ever speak to her.

This is crucial, and this is more than simply being an attractive man. Women want an alpha male, a leader of men, a confident man. The man conveys this to her through his body language. Of course, it's easier to convey confidence when you actually have it. How do you get it?

You get by having a life. You get it by pursuing the things that you are passionate about. You get it by having a well rounded life and a strong foundation. By having this strong foundation, women will be a consequence of your great life, not the reason for it.

Photography? Billiards? Playing guitar? You need a reason to get up in the morning other than chasing skirt. You need a foundation. You need a clear sense of who you are and what you want from life. Be honest with yourself. I know it can be hard to look at yourself this way, but you must do it.

Would you like to expand yourself, or is chasing women what you are about? Women should be a result of your awesome life. Actually, this is less about women and more about you! If you are living an awesome life you will interest more women than if women are the standard of whether or not your life is wonderful.

I know I'm really harping on foundation and self-awareness a lot here, but it's because it's so crucial and is really a "deal breaker". You need to master your inner game to truly succeed.

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