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by: JohnHarris
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Today's article is about frames and how having the proper frame in any encounter in life (Especially with women) will improve your chances ten fold. The concept is simple but can be difficult to master. As with anything, practice makes perfect.

Consider a common frame a man might have when approaching a woman he's never met. It might be along the lines of: "Gosh, she's so pretty. I hope I can make a good impression on her so she'll like me. What if she doesn't like me"?

Sound familiar? Do you think having this frame before talking to a woman will help your cause? What if instead the man had this frame: "Hmmm. She seems like the kind of girl who might be worthy of me. Today's her lucky day, because I'm going to give her a chance to show me if she's worthy".

The second frame is obviously more powerful. The way I look at it, if you're going to go up to a woman and start a conversation, you may as well have the proper frame. If you're going to do something, do it right! A few days ago I covered having a good foundation. That applies here.

Remember, you are the one who is qualifying her, not the other way around. You are the one who has choice and variety in your love life, and you are giving this girl a chance to be a part of it. With this frame floating around in your brain, I guarantee women will notice and will want to be the one to "win you over".

I need to point out that you should never state your frames verbally. You'll come across as a jerk. Your demeanor and attitude will convey your frame, not your words. This will be 100 times more powerful than stating it. People that have standards and are choosy usually get better quality than people who are desperate and will take anything given to them.

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