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When you think of "dating" a woman, you probably think of "dinner and a movie," am I right?

Going out and doing things with a woman while you get to know one another is dating.

Consider for a moment that this is a misconception about dating.

Although many men may consider dating a woman means they have some type of hidden romantic purpose, this is not always true.

Here is a small list of some of the more common mistakes a man can make while dating a woman.

Mistake #1: Guys use dates as opportunities to "Impress" women.

Often men might feel like they have something to prove while on a date, to get the woman to like them. They seem to think that taking a woman to some fancy and memorable place and bragging about their accomplishments makes them seem important.

Mistake #2: You can buy the love of a woman.

Sadly, many men think that if they spend enough money on a woman, they can get her to sleep with them. This is always (and has always been) a bad idea. Aside from the gold diggers in the world, most women don't care how much you're spending on a date.

Mistake #3: Activities are meaningless!

Going out and doing things with someone does not mean as much as you think it might. Simply going to on dates does not encourage a womans interest for you. You cannot create romantic interest by just spending time together.

Mistake #4: Sabotaging yourself with boredom!

Nothing is worse than going out on a date where there is no spark or chemistry. Some guys get so nervous on dates, that they sabotage themselves by being a boring dud. They talk about mundane things, display little or no personality, and just go through the motions hoping not to screw anything up.

Mistake #5: Guys follow a pattern of failure.

Some men have a preconceived ideal of dating, how they think things should happen, and then they rigidly follow that perception. They may go out on a dinner date, while they ask her all the same questions as their other dates. This eliminates all the spontaneous fun of interacting with the woman.

What does dating a woman mean?

It is simply really, dating builds attractions by strengthening emotional connections and building comfort.

Where you go and the amounts of money you spend are not important, what is important is your ability to connect with the woman you are dating and positively encouraging the way she feels about you.

That is why so many guys can take a girl on a cheap date and sweep her off her feet, and other guys can drop thousands of dollars on really creative dates and get NOWHERE.

Your entire focus while dating a girl should be "how can I become more emotionally connected to this girl?"

Talk about your shared interests. Talk about your passions. Try and figure out what her hopes and dreams are.

Stay away from boring questions like "where do you work?" Instead, rephrase these questions to be fun and interesting, for instance, ask her: "If you could do anything you wanted, and weren't bound by the laws of space and time, what would you do?"

Just have fun and enjoy yourself!

Crack jokes - even if they're not good. Have fun. Steer the conversation toward subjects she finds interesting. Be curious about who she is.

But most importantly, don't shy away from sex!

Too many guys are afraid to even broach the topic of sex while on a date. But you have to build the sexual tension to intensify the attraction.

Joke about sex. Flirt with her. Be a little wicked. Girls like this, and if you DON'T do it, you won't be able to build enough attraction to take things to the next level.

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