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Some pick up lines are unbecoming, boring and rude.

When have you heard some of the cheesiest of pick up lines like the following...

"Nice shoes. Wanna bang?"

"Do I know you from somewhere?"

"Did you wash your pants with windex? Because I can see myself in them."

Using a line like these will get you nowhere with a woman fast, chances are she will not even speak to you.

Consequently, bad pick up lines get too much attention, therefore everyone thinks all pick up lines are lame.

This simply is not true.

A good pick up line will ACTUALLY help you pick up a woman.

Keep in mind that the purpose of using a pick up line is to begin a conversation.

That is all.

After the woman begins talking with you, then you work your magic of getting her to date you, her telephone number and the emotional connection.

But if you can't get the conversation started, then you can do anything else!

Because you shouldn't just be talking to a girl. You should be ENGAGING the girl. Pulling her into a conversation with you is the only sure-fire way to further your agenda.

Do you know that good pick up lines do just that?

When I first started going out to meet women, I was always at a loss of what to say to first meet a girl. I was always trying to think of something to say off the top of my head, and more often than not, I'd miss my opportunity to meet a great girl because it took me too long to think something up.

This is why you should know a couple of good working pick up lines. Situations like these may hinder you from being original and you need something to help you get the ball rolling.

But don't be fooled into thinking you can get away with a line like:

"Don't I know you from somewhere?"

This is lame pick up line and women know it, this is not a clever pick up line and makes you look bad.

Other bad pick up lines include, asking for directions, complimenting her on her clothing and telling her she looks like some big celebrity.

Why?

Because these things do not ENGAGE the girl. Once she responds, there is nothing to keep her in the conversation.

Avoid pick up lines that have yes and no answers. Good pick up lines get a woman to think about her reply, while inducing an emotional reaction, which encourages her to continue talking with you.

How can you engage a woman in conversation with you?

The easiest way is to ask her opinion about something. Every woman has strong opinions, and they aren't afraid to share them! (Particuarly when they come to relationships!)

Here is an example. Say to her, Can I get your opinion on something, please. Do you think it is strange for a woman to try to get pregnant at certain times so her child is born under a particular astrological sign? I would really be interested in a womans opinion of this.

Then you can follow up with a story about how you know a woman who wants to make sure her kid's zodiac signs are compatible with hers so they will be well behavied as they grow up.

This leads to all kinds of different conversation topics, things like:

1. Relationships 2. Astrology 3. Marriage 4. Pregnancy 5. Children

The places you can go with this type of line are limitless. Here are some of my favorite follow-ups.

"Do you think there's something to astrology?" (then lead into more discussion about destiny or fate.)

"What sign are you?" (this leads into your sign compatibility with her - HINT: no matter what her sign is, you're compatible!)

"Do you like kids? You seem like the nurturing type."

I could go on, but you should get the idea.

So as you can see, this pick up line is designed to pull the girl into a deep and interesting conversation, and gives you the opportunity to get to know her better and allow her to become familiar with you.

This is how conversations are started!

At this point, it's the easiest thing in the world to get a phone number from a girl, and possibly even set up a first date.

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