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by: VinDiCarlo
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Dating can be your best pal.

...OR your worst enemy.

Most of the time, a man can feel like a slave to his natural need to procreate.

Then there's that common phrase, "He thinks with his... You know."

Well it can be tough to NOT think that way if you aren't sensually satisfied.

But men are also goal oriented.

We are doers, and need to achieve things and affect the world in a positive way.

Balancing the two - my urges and achieving my goals is one of the biggest challenges I've personally faced.

Dating can take a lot of time when you are single. Women will suck away at your time if you don't know what you're doing.

Before you notice it, you are spending hours feeding the birds and cuddling in the park... now nothing wrong with spending a quality time with your girlfriend, AS LONG AS IT DON'T interferes YOUR GOALS IN LIFE.

Goals take time, but so do women.

In fact, it's a woman's NATURE to get the man's time - it's her way of getting you to invest in her. If she gets pregnant there's a lesser chance of you leaving her (this comes from our caveman days, so to speak).

It is really tricky to manage your time with women. You see, giving their time to women is what most guys WANT to give. By nature men are "givers." They like to please women, protect them, and give them good feelings.

Guys have also a urges that can completely take over your thinking.

Both of these things can get in the way of you making the most time of your life.

I want you to take a second and ask yourself, "WHAT DO I REALLY WANT TO GIVE TO WOMEN?"

Now I know it wasn't about "money," or "control over my life," or "lots of my free time."

It was probably something like "relaxation, excitement, feeling of safety, good feelings, sexual pleasure, make her smile or feel good about herself, etc."

There are two ways that I think why men have problems with how they use their time with women.

First, they think that the gifts they REALLY want to give aren't that valuable, so they overcompensate with other stuff - like spending too much time or money on a woman.

Second, men think that they are "getting" something valuable when a girl spends time with them.

Society brainwashes guys into believing that women are a prize to attain, and that there's some inherent value in a pretty face.

It's not TRUE!

The best thing is to see women for what they are, nothing more, nothing less. They are cute, sometimes fun, but ultimately not that important, AND THEY CAN'T COMPLETE YOUR LIFE!

Now getting out of this mental prison of feeling inferior to women is really hard.

It is hard to notice the mental habits because these are subtle and you've been doing them for years.

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