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The issue at hand is not just a matter of getting your ex to return. The issue has to begin with why did they leave in the first place. Look inside yourself and examine what role you played,in your partner leaving you.

Why did you get together in the first place? One thing that attracts us to others is our desire for completion. People need to be fulfilled emotionally. The most common emotional pull is the need to feel good. Think about it for a moment, don't you like being around people who make you feel good about yourself. Making a person feel good about themselves is not very difficult. Think how you feel when someone tells you they like the way you look on a particular day. How about if someone tells you that you have a great sense of humor, or you had a great game. How did you feel? You must share that feeling with people you care about. You can't be so self absorbed that you forget that your partner likes this feeling as well.

Secondly, people get together because you have empowered them with importance. We all want to feel needed and wanted in life. Who wants to feel unnecessary? Who wants to be around someone who makes you feel unnecessary? How does a team mate feel when games are won when he stays at home? He starts to question, am I really needed? Now if another team that has been losing tries to recruit him, he may feel like it's a good idea to move on to the next team. Do you understand?

Thirdly, make your person feel special.Remember how you treated your partner when you first met? Everything was funny. You opened doors, cooked meals daily,you went out on dates. Just because you are a couple doesn't mean you should stop any of this behavior. Treat them like everyday could be your last day together. You have to remember there will always be someone else waiting in the wings looking for a good mate. Don't send them out to the wolves. Continue to do whatever you did to get them in the first place.

An example of little things could be something, as small as; setting the table before dinner, picking up their favorite candy bar at the store, taking their car to get washed, or filled with gas. All these little things say constantly, I love you enough to think about what you want. That is special. Flowers are great also but it's the small things that keep saying I care, you are special to me.

After you determine what you did wrong, on your part you need a plan to get your ex back. You need to know what to say or not say so that you can get in there and repair some damage. Suppose they won't even answer your phone call. If you want to get your ex back, it is possible, you may need some guidance. You should watch this video, to help you plan the steps needed to get your ex to return.

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