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Some women think that it is hard to win a man's heart, yet others find it as easy as walking on a summers day. What is the difference between the two? One of them has mastered the subtle art of seduction, they know how to communicate with the guy subconsciously so that he responds to her without thinking that she is doing anything at all. These methods are not unethical or even devious, they are just genuine ways to communicate that will help you in every aspect of life.

Body language is a powerful tool that you can use on a date or in any situation with a man to open communications and create a bond that the man may not even know is happening. What few people know is that we communicate only a small amount of what we learn about each other verbally. Most of what you come to understand about your sweetheart comes from body language.

Every small act can communicate something to the guy you are with, a movement of your hands, a look from your eyes, all can turn a date from being a dud to being electrifying. The best way to start to learn is to watch others when you are out. You can start to see when people are open and in agreement, laughing and joking away, leaning in together. And when they are having an argument or one of them is bored, when they are leaning back with their arms crossed etc. If you inadvertently give the wrong signals you can come across as bored or even hostile towards your date!

You can create a sense of trust and openness by leaning forward and looking at him with bright eyes and a slight smile on your face as he talks. If your body language says "I am thinking about nothing else except you", he will hear that message loud and clear. Another trick is if you are sitting across the table from him, are your hands under the table or on the table extended toward his side? Hands are a powerful means of communication and if yours are reaching out, that communicates he should come to you for friendship and love. Then if you turn the palms upward, the message of openness and acceptance is even more powerful.

As the evening progresses, never miss the chance to engage in incidental contact. Little touches between you and your date establish an intimacy between you that is subtle but quickly lowers barriers between you and him. You can touch his hand lightly when you laugh, lean into him when talking like you are sharing secrets or even whisper in his ear. That whisper is one of the most powerful gestures of intimacy there is before you actually enter into a romantic relationship with a guy and it is something very hard for a man to resist.

You can also try something a little trickier, matching your body language to his. When we are in agreement with somebody, or we like or respect them, then we will subconsciously adjust out body language to match theirs. This makes the other person subconsciously feel more at ease and feel a connection with you. Make sure you do this subtly though so it doesn't look like you are copying him, wait for a while after he moves until you move into that position also, and don't copy everything, if he crosses his arms it could be a sign you said something wrong and if you cross your arms as well he will think you are closing up to him and then the date may go sour!

You can also mirror the way he speaks to give him that 'connection' with you that he will be thrilled about but won't be able to explain to himself. We all speak differently, some people waffle on and on, other talk in quick bursts, others talk gently and slowly etc. If you gradually come around to his way of talking then you will both be able to talk much more freely as your styles will complement each other and then you can get down to the business of getting to know each other.

These little tricks of the trade are proven methods for lowering the barriers to true romance and getting that guy to open up to you so you can get to know him. And by being a clever companion to him, you are learning to make him better for you even when he doesn't know you are doing it. It's a skill that will benefit you in every stage of your relationship with a man.

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