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by: JohnHarris
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When women are attracted to men, it is because the man has displayed to her that he has superior genes. A woman desires subconsciously to have superior offspring, evolutionarily speaking. Consequently, her number one biological criteria when selecting a man to have sex with is whether or not the man has shown her alpha male traits (superior genes).

Obviously, women don't deliberately make this conclusion. It is a result of millions of years of fruition. We are animals. Highly developed animals, but animals nevertheless. When a woman is sexually attracted to a man, her thoughts are not "He has great genes so I want to be with him so I can have high-quality offspring".

Instead, her thoughts are probably "He is alluring. I like him. He makes me feel womanly and beautiful and horny". Her emotions tell her, not her rational, sane conscious mind.

This should make sense. Consider every time you have seen this. You have probably noticed women falling for guys that didn't seem worthy of her. Slimy, even. Had you looked closer, you would have seen that they probably were displaying the characteristics we are talking about here.

When a woman comes into contact with a man like this, logic and reason fly out the window. How many times have you heard a woman say she likes a certain kind of man, but dates the exact opposite?

The seduction of a woman is a four part process.

1. The man exhibits alpha male characteristics and aligns himself in the woman's field of vision.

This should seem obvious. You can have the goods, but if you don't display them, how will she know? You simply must leave the house and go where women are.

* The woman sends the man signals that she is interested.

Sadly, most men are dense when it comes to reading a woman's body language, much less acting on it. Men are just not made this way. The good news is a man can learn with practice to recognize these signs and understand them.

* After receiving the signals, the man approaches the women (Assuming he is interested).

All I can say is the approach must be relevant to the situation. If you are in the mall, comment on the selection of clothes. If you are in church, comment on the choir. If you are in class, comment on the instructor. No pickup lines should be used at any time. The important thing to focus on is the angle of the approach (45 degrees) and your body language (More on this later). Be sure to turn your head slightly to face her and not to face her head on. This is intrusive.

* After meeting, the man discreetly gives the woman an opportunity to be alone with him

Discretion is very important. Don't embarrass her in front of her friends, and don't mention sex directly. This will ruin your chances. Even if she wants to have sex with you, she won't if you bring it up directly. The key is to make up an excuse for the two of you to be alone. She'll get the idea and can either "accept" or "reject" your invitation.

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