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What is my "type"? Obviously, he is smart, funny, and cute. But who doesn't have this type?

Seems that for those of us that are seriously looking for a mate, then we should dig deep and determine what it is that will make us happy long term. These are some suggestions to get you there.

Personality tests. Insight into what makes you tick can be found in any one of dozens of personality tests available. An online search will turn up tests like Myers-Briggs that are geared toward career options, but will certainly help you analyze yourself and what you need to be happy in a relationship too.

Make a list of your ex's positive traits. Don't relive your past relationship traumas and self-destruct. But do learn from your experiences. Seek out qualities of a person that you know, based on your history, will work.

Find your fantasy love affair. AOL Personals has taken some of its members' profiles and categorized them by celebs they are similar to. If you like Matthew McConaughey, Patrick Dempsey, or Katie Holmes, for example, try it out just for fun.

Values. Values. Values. A shared value system is the key in any long-lasting relationship. Your fundamental beliefs and priorities in life shouldn't be compromised by your partner. Identify the values that matter most to you, for example, a career, children, faith, and geography. Only accept a second date with someone who shares your values with you.

Online shopping. Dating sites like Match.com, EliteMate.com, or Singlesnet.com are good for browsing. Maybe you'll even decide you want to join the site. Either way it's a good way to look at someone's qualities that you may not have thought about before.

These suggestions will hopefully guide you in the right direction, but keep an open mind on your type and who you date. You never know who might surprise you and turn out to be your type after all.

Other dating suggestions can be found at www.datingtales.net/online_dating_guide.html.

About the Author

About the Author: Sara Musfeldt operates a blog filled with dating stories and dating profile tips for everyone. She has also created an online dating advice to help singles everywhere find love.

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